You can decide who comes into your birth and even who sees baby after birth. Ask you labor nurse to guard the door.Choose your birth team wisely. You nurse is your greatest ally (at least she should be or fire her) She should be respectful, supportive, and encouraging. She can also help guide you in the right direction if you feel uncertain or overwhelmed by visitors and what to do if they don’t respect you.Setting boundaries around your birth can look like letting your doctor know that you do n